Mad is back today, she is a woman from work that just had a baby... I think I talked her ear off about my concerns and worries. She was patient and answered all my questions though. I guess when you just went through some of the same worries it's understandable. All though she has the ability to somehow keep focused and unstressed. I on the other hand am a big bundle of nerves, I may explode any moment. Her calmness helps me. She had Gestational Diabetes, so I got lots of good advice on how to handle what I eat.